In today’s world, rising divorce rates have become a common phenomenon, with thousands of children living on the streets unmanned and managed. There are currently 500,000 unparent children in the UK, 40% of whom live on social assistance. More than 1 million children in the United States have suffered from family ruin and suffering, and they have been devastated and tortured. Brazil has 15 million homeless children, nearly a quarter of the nation’s youth. These children abandoned by their parents suffered mental and material suffering and distress. Many people were mentally deformed and psychologically perverted and fell into the mud of crime.
Children who are currently abandoned by their divorced parents, although they account for The proportion of the entire population is very small, but the absolute number is quite large, and there is an increasing trend. Some children are therefore not fully developed in personality, and even go to the path of crime.
The child’s physical and mental development differs depending on the caregiver. Being raised by the father, because the father is busy with his career, his life is often simplified, so that the child does not get the care and care he deserves. Although the mother can be taken care of in life, but without the influence of the father, there is always a flaw in the psychological. By the parents and grandparents, due to the limitations of the ancestors’ old age and the cultural concept, the children can not get intellectual guidance and personality development. All of these have serious adverse effects on children, and the child’s early experience will play an important role in future career development and healthy personality growth. The influence of the children of divorced families has caused their psychology, personality and behavior to be abnormal, called the divorce child syndrome.
Children who are depressed by their parents, who are abandoned by their parents, Most are reticent, low-spirited, afraid to associate with others, and fear that others will ask about his parents in dealing with people. When they see other people’s families and reunion, their moods are more depressed, their feelings are more fragile, and their traumatic trauma is worse. This makes their words and deeds behave erratically, even psychologically abnormal, once they are criticized by their parents, or they are dissatisfied with their parents. What you do, you will be tempted to go out and go to the society.
Freedom to slow down, aggressive heartbeat Although this is also true in children of normal families, it is more apparent in children who are divorced by their parents. Due to the lack of family warmth, lack of parents’ “sexual love”, and lack of parents’ words and deeds, they are often in a state of laissez-faire, organizational discipline is poor, academic performance is declining, and they are indifferent to collective activities, often acting alone.
Poor health due to unattended and considerate, Nutritional and hygienic habits are poor, and some suffer from insomnia due to traumatic trauma, so the constitution is weak. Some children said: I am sick, I have to sleep alone at home, accompany me, only pain and tears.
Easy to go to criminal roads According to the survey, the proportion of children in divorced families is significantly higher than that of children in normal families. They can only seek solace in society because they do not get the warmth and education of their families. Once you encounter a bad person, you will lead them astray, and the deeper and deeper you can’t extricate themselves.
The impact of divorce on children is far more than that. It is said that divorce has no harm to children. Children love their parents and are eager to get the care and attention of their parents. However, what can a growing child have for a growing child? As a child psychologist puts it: “For children, the trauma of parental divorce is second only to death.” Parental divorce is the most serious and complex mental health crisis facing contemporary children. Therefore, people who will decide on the divorce book to decide the fate of the divorce, please think more about the child, do not make hasty decisions, so as not to regret retiring for life.