Children don’t care when they are young Spend money.
When you are in kindergarten, your home toy can be put up in a plastic bucket. Even if a friend comes to see it, we say that we abuse children. After we leave, we have mailed a set of toys as a “relief”. .
“You have so few toys, are you sad?” I asked the child.
“A lot of things, sad?” She flashed her big eyes, as if wondering why she asked such a strange question.
“But there are more children’s toys in other people’s homes. I have a colleague. The toys at home are all piled up in a whole room. Are you not envious?”
“More Is there any good? You can’t play it, don’t you have long hair?”
Long, long hair… This, what logic?
Go to the park, far When I saw a playground, we both ran excitedly there, and ran while listening to her: “I don’t know if it’s free.”
I almost fainted, this child can save money, Is it fake?
After having a child’s birthday, I almost cried and “fake”.
It was in the mall, I was going to buy her a birthday toy, let her pick it, which one to pick which one, and then pick it up, I took the money to the boss, and then said to the child: “Okay. Let’s go.”
Put down the toy and follow me.
At that moment, my heart is broken. Is it customary to think that shopping mall toys can only be used for viewing?
However, this is not the most collapsed.
The most collapse is in elementary school After that, their school had to organize a “flea market” activity, which is to take some old things to buy and sell each other, while experiencing the fun of commodity exchange, while testing the skills of mathematics to change.
In the morning, she gave her about 8 or 9 yuan to go to school.
After school at night, there are a few more “buy” balloons, vanity mirrors and other small items in the bag. It looks very happy.
Want to see how much money she spent, so I took out the rest of the money and started counting. After the number, we were shocked: 10 yuan!
8, 9 dollars, bought things into 10 dollars?
What is going on here? One way of saying this is: she bought a few balloons, other students want to buy with her, she did not want to sell, she deliberately reported a high price, and actually sold. Another way of saying this is: Someone is looking for the wrong money, and 5 Mao is looking for 5 pieces. When she finds that she is going back, she can’t find anyone.
This happened a few years ago. My memory has a divergence from my child’s memory and it has not been verified.
But either, the result is always broken.
Why is the child so frugal? ? I have also reflected on it. The reason may be simple: I still have a “fake” wife.
The daughter-in-law of other people can’t wait for more than half of their wages to buy clothes and buy bags every year. My wife is like “fake”, not only rarely buy clothes, but even if I buy it occasionally, I should try my best. Discount big buy. One year, the whole family spent the cost of buying clothes, but I was afraid that I could not keep up with her own salary for one month.
What kind of mother, what kind of child, I think.
In order to prevent children from being too frugal, they will be easily cheated by “Gao Fushuai” in the future. From the beginning of her recognition, she will save her “income” such as lucky money. It’s true, it’s not pretending to be awkward.
Then tell her seriously, this is your own money, you can make money for yourself. If you run into something we are not allowed to buy, you have the right to buy it with your own money.
Because the money exists in the card, she is worried that she is not convenient to withdraw money, but also has a special whole, and she has a wallet for daily consumption.
A result, except that she occasionally saw her take the money out and played the toy twice, she never saw her move again.